Society ~vs~ Self-Respect

Did you know that statistics read there are 5% of leaders in every high school and the other 95% of students are followers who are over-friendly, co-dependent and are bad listeners to good advice.  These same people major in being disrespectful and minor in self-respect due to lack of home training and faulty thinking.

If you will disrespect your mother you will disrespect anyone. Whenever these students are in public, teachers and the police can see you coming a mile away. Practicing self-respect should be a priority at home and carry over into social relationships amongst peers.


This world has enough crime and fools who destroy society based on bad home training and negative influences from the environment. Let’s reduce unhealthy social interaction by making a difference through the art of self-respect. The respect you give yourself will be given back to you by others through honor and admiration. And the respect you show others will grow into an arm of gratitude and an act of kindness expressed back to you as your reward of respect towards humanity.

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Self-Respect takes time and is not learned over night.  But always remember that you give others the advantage to share a quality life with you whenever you make them feel respected.

Self-Respect is the ability to implement boundaries and discipline in your life that help you tell others how much you respect yourself. But respect for others is an example of how much you care about other people.

Whatever you didn’t learn or gain during elementary and high school, you will need as an adult. Our children must take advantage of the support beams they have growing up. Those same people who impact your life may not be present when you become an adult.

Parents, teachers and neighbors along with a community of others have your best interest at hand growing up. Within this community are opportunities to learn self-respect and respect for others.

Quote: The lessons unlearned as a child will become problems returned as an adult.

In other words, whatever you were supposed to learn as a child you may need as an adult. Those are times we make bad decisions and are confused or indecisive about how to treat yourself and other people.


We have to learn these things early on in life so that we live productive lives as adults being kind to our family and community.

Self-Respect & respect for others has a unique way of connecting us to love and unity we all need every day in our lives. God bless! 

Love and Care

This source of information is from the book titled “(The Blueprint for Survival As A Single Parent)”.

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Where Are The Fathers?

Where Are Fathers

• Did you know that Approximately 82.2% of single parents are mothers, and
• 17.8% of single parents (approximately 1 in 6) are fathers

There was an article in the paper asking what’s important to people in America? A group of concerned Americans responded by saying something like this: If you wanted to make the world a better place–how could you do it?

  • When they asked businessmen, they said we need more strong politicians & businessman in society. True!
    • When they asked a preacher, he said we need more church members for outreach. True!
    • When they asked a principal, he said we need more good teachers in the classroom. True!
    • But when they asked a child, they said we need more fathers. Let us pause and pray for the increase of fathers!

Prov 13:20 He that walk with wise men shall be wise but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.

Come a board Dad, let’s show America there are a fleet of great dads taking care of their children and helping other parents with theirs.
Quote: What you learn for yourself is a lesson! But teaching children the right way is a generational blessing!


Proverbs 22:6 Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.

Psalm 127:3-5 Sons and daughters are a heritage from the Lord, children are a reward from him.

Joshua 24:15 But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.”

Best dads in America, let’s all rise to the occasion! It’s worth it!

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